Will women take the entire credit of being designated as the "Mysterious Girl"? Don't men have their own mysteries? What does it take to woo a man? What motivates him - good food, charming fragrances, nice dresses, drinks? Does a man express his feelings openly? And how serious is he about flirting? What can you do to ignite his passion? How important freedom is to him? You can find new developments each day in your man whom you have known for years!
Let's explore 14 secrets about men:
- Men Do Talk About Their Feelings: We often feel that men are not as sensitive as women. But they actually are! They only expect you to give them a loving environment in which they can feel comfortable in talking about their feelings for you or for your relation. So be patient and don't taunt them, rather wait for the right time.
- They Believe in Action Than in Words: Women are very expressive and they never leave a chance to let their partners know how much they love them. They say "I love you " several times. But this is not true with men. They believe more in action than in words. They have their own ways of saying "I love you" not verbally but through action. They will express their feelings by doing small chores for you like helping you with cleaning or accompanying you to buy grocery or throwing out the trash for you or doing anything that can make you smile. So stop looking for words and find meaning in their actions.
- Their Commitments are Serious: It's true that men are afraid of commitments. But the reason is that they take commitments seriously. They will not commit unless they are ready to take up the responsibility. And once they commit, there is no looking back for them. So don't pester them to commit. Wait for them to be ready and take responsibility.
- They Do Listen: Many women think that their husbands or partners do not really listen to them while they are talking. Well, many guys are not in a habit of saying "Yes" or "Hmm.." while they listen, but that doesn't mean they don't listen to you at all. Maybe they want to listen quietly and think what you are talking about.
- Men Love the Adrenaline Rush: Men really like that adrenaline rush. And they really wish that their partners also bond with them and share their favorite sport or event. So next time you want to bond better with your man, go out with him for rafting or skiing or any of his favorite sport.
- Set Them Free: Men don't like to be accompanied or petted all the time. They want more time with themselves than most women. So set them free. Give them some space for themselves. Let your man enjoy his gardening or photography or golfing or working out at gym.
- They Learn from Their Father: Men admire their fathers and they learn most of their things watching their fathers, especially the tact of handling relationships. So you can observe his dad to know how he would be like in the future.
- Men Like to Forget Bad Experiences: While you may still be upset about the last night's arguments and thinking about it, your man would have already forgotten it! So don't ponder your thoughts and forgive and forget.. probably that is what he is expecting you to do!
- Be Direct: Many men ail to pick up facial expressions and signs or tone in your voice. So if you are expecting your man to understand that you had a bad day or you are in a bad mood, then you may be going wrong somewhere. Just say it directly to him.
- Men Like Appreciations: Well, who doesn't love to hear all those "good-good" words? And men love them too! They learn a lot through appreciation. That's how they become more caring and competent. So save your words and speak in front of them.
- Men have Sex on Their Minds: This is not really a secret but studies have shown that men think and fantasize more about sex than what average women do. At least once every day does sex cross their minds! Men find sexual intimacy to be most satisfying in the context of a committed relationship.
- Men Like it if You Initiate: Many guys often feel that they are the ones who always initiate, but they really wish if their partners would take the lead at times! So don't be shy to let him know that you are in the mood. Initiate sex, it will lead to higher satisfaction level for both of you.
- Men are More Concerned About Pleasing Their Partners: Your man likes to make you feel good. But he will not know what you like and what you don't, unless you tell him about it. So feel free to talk to him and you'll end feeling happier. Remember to be polite while you let him know about your disliking. Don't hurt his ego.
- They Want to be Loved and Cared: A man always likes the feeling of being loved and cared for. And if he is not satisfied or feeling unloved, he may look for satisfaction elsewhere which may involve him burying himself in work or in a sport, in drinks or in other women in extreme cases. So stay alert!
Man woman relationship is full of mysteries and new discoveries. This is the most exciting part of a relationship. You may be staying with your man for many years and may be trying to take the entire credit of knowing him fully, but soon you may get shocked to see a new development. New findings every day with instill newness in a typical man woman relationship.
